X's

X's, as in ex girlfriends/boyfriends, can be funny sometimes. Now before we get going let me just say that no, this isn't going to be about my X's. I hung out with 2 couples today who had previously been together but no longer are. With both pairs I like everyone involved and some of them are my best friends. One pair is trying to rebuild a friendship after several years of not really talking. The other couple...Well...I'm not sure what's going on there. I know she doesn't want to be with him like that anymore and she has told me a number of times that she needed to stop hanging out with him, for his sake, so that he would get over her. But tonight, they went back to her place and drank and watched Aqua Teen. I know your saying well hey at least they are trying to make it work, but I don't see it that way. See, he really wants to be back with her because she just ended it a few weeks ago. Now me and her discussed this whole deal and she keeps telling me how much she doesn't want to hang out with him and how she wont pick up the phone when he calls sometimes and how she trys to not go to Kharma when he is there but then nights like this happen! I wish she would just stop toying with him because its not fair for him. Please understand that I am very aware of how hard it is to go through a break up and how hard it is to let go of someone....oh God do I know how hard that is. But sometimes it just fustraits me to see stuff like that because you know that as soon as one person takes a stand and says look, its done, go away...and means it and actually follows through on it, things might be really bad for like a few weeks maybe, but then it gets better. It cant get better until someone takes a stand. Either together or not together. All she does is talk about how he wont stop and he keeps asking her to come back and she keeps saying no, but then pulls stuff like tonight. She is a great friend to me and I have nothing but love for her, but come on, enough is enough.